Making new friends and avoid fake friends.

It's the friends we meet along the way that help us appreciate the journey

There are moments in life where you just don't know anymore who is your friend and who's not. You just don't know what the true meaning of friendship is because of all the fake people you had in your life, but don't worry. Life is full of suprises and meeting great people are one of the biggest suprises.

Here are a few things you need to understand and you need to know before you'll cut people out of your life or when you decide to begin a new friendship. So shall we ?

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Know your worth
This is very important. You need to know your worth. You need to know that you are a very beautiful human being and that no one can walk over you! Don't let people use you or say mean stuff to you. Friendship is amazing and you can joke with each other, but there is a different between joking and saying mean things about each other.

A special bond
We've all see them on instagram or on WHI; friendship goals pictures. I like those pictures and I love how cute the pictures are, but don't force your friendship to be like those on the internet. Their friendship is not like yours, they've got another bond with their friends and you've got your special bond with your friends. And if you do want to do something like you saw on the internet, don't do it for the picture, but do it for the memories you could make.

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Love the picture, but I know for sure that if I want to do that my friend who makes the picture will let the camera fall...
Spening time with each other
This is an important one, because a lot of friendships are based on spending time with each other and that's not how it works. Friendship means to be there for each other and not to be 24/7 with each other. We all know it's fun and we love to spend time with our friends, but if your BFF gets angry about you not spending enough time with her is wrong. That's not how it works. When I think back about my past friendships all I can think about is that the only reason why I was friends with them was because I saw them five times or more in a week. But that's not how it works, because when you are friends you can see each other next year and you could still catch up like you saw each other yesterday. So spend time with each other, but don't force it. Give it time to actually miss each other.

You and Me
when your friendship is healthy you wouldn't do anything to hurt your friend. So you won't talk behind their back, you'll defend your friend and you'll love them like they are your brother or sister and that you'll care so much about them. We all know how A Walk to Remember starts and let me tell you if your friends ask you to do something like this, they don't care about you and they are also very crazy... Just saying.

Growing apart
Sometimes you need to let the past in the past...

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Acceptance
You will accept them and they will accept you. That's it. If somebody wants to be your friend they will need to accept your weird habits, your music taste and all the other things that makes you.

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I know how much it hurts when you start realizing that your supposed to be friends are not actually your friends. It hurts so much, but sometimes you need to let people down who also let you down a long time ago. Don't hate the people, just don't be their friend.

There will be a moment in life where you'll meet your kind of people and you'll only be surrounded with people you want to be with.

Until then I wish you all the best this world can give you.

Stay beautiful ❤️